Life is not the Hell, it is the wisdom. You may be blaming yourself for being so troubled in your life. But the the fact that I am gonna share will really open up your eyes. You may be knowing that accidents some times reveals some important phenomenons in one's life. The same thing happen with one of my friend "SAGAR".
He is a student doing I.T.I. diploma in 'Production & Manufacturing. An year ago he had given S.S.C. Exam (Secondary School Certificate Exam, Maharashtra state). He got about 50% marks. But he wasn't aware of the facts he had to do further. In short he hadn't thought about his career & was very confuse about the further admission process. Many of the people like his parents prefer to suggest him not to take admission in Junior college although he was willing to do so. It's like if one was ready to work Hard, he wasn't given the opportunity.
Let it be, lets continue with the topic. Now he was totally trapped 7 had no option than to take admission to I.T.I. That was still fine. But his experience was not good at all. He found that the staff was not so likely to be interested teaching those batch in which he was given admission as the students including in it were not interesting in studying. He was totally thrilled. He was mentally disturbed & was not even able to think. Now he was in a kind of condition where he was not allowed even to run away from such a troubled life.....
Do u think he was trapped....??? The life had not left any option before him...??? Many of you may be thinking "yes". But was that really....?? Actually it was NOT. He wasn't really trapped or nothing was like the life hadn't left any option before him...!! It was just like he had to refresh himself & to try the other approach towards the life. But like many other fellows in India this time, he was also not able to do so. So he had needed someone to do that for him. So I took the job as I usually do & tried to make out something for him.
He was so worried for his career. So I first made him feel calm & relaxed. From my point of view the Fun & Entertainment is BEST doing this. I managed it with quite easily. All thanks to my sense of time. It is God gifted. How Lucky I am ! Let it be. What I did is I tried consulting his parents & let them know that 'someone' can't decide their child's future. Someone's suggestion can’t decide their child's career.
Guess what...?? They were agreed. He was so happy with the things happening around him. The feeling behind that was not like he was happy forever. His parents came to know that their child is not happy with their decision at all. He was happy that from that time his parents were at least gonna discuss with him about each decision which was gonna taken place.
But still the problem was not solved completely. He don't wanted to go to I.T.I. So the question which arising was if not I.T.I. then what...?? How can he be professional in his life...?? What to do next...?? Again he was trapped in a problem. But as I have said earlier he had needed to be calm & relaxed to think for the further things. Again I walked to him & gave him a words of faith.
I suggest him to go for Junior College leaving his current studies. He was ready. His parents were convinced. They agreed to send him to junior college. He did 11th there & the results were so shocking. He scored first class marks in the final exam of 11th. His parents were so glad to see their child performing so good in the exams as they had never seen him performing him that good in the any other exam. Know how did this happen…?? What actually made him so good…?? What led to convert him into excellent student from an ordinary student…??
Now, I must not need to remind you that it was the faith that his parents had shown on him, it was the opportunity that his eyes were seeking to, it was my words of refreshment that he was seriously required. And must not forget “It was his changed sight to see the life.”
You may be meeting some of such guys who need mental attendance, who want someone behind him. Please let me know about those guys & your views about them.
Thank you,
more of the students are facing the same problem...
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